Welcome to sabrielliew.blogspot.com
About Me
Profile
Sabriel Liew♥Sweet sixteen.
Born on 2nd of May
He's her everything ♥
Absolutely loves her friends
Adores her cousins
The Way Out
Links
♥Amanda
AmyKok
AmyPhang
Anysia
Benedict
BoonKeat
Carmen
ChangMeng
ChanHon
ChiYiu
ChongSheng & ChenLynn
Crystal
DangYao
Dennis
Desmond
DeJun
E-Jia
EeVoon
ELynn
HueyIn
HueyShin
HuiQing
HuoyWenn
Jared
JiaErn
JiaLing
JiaYee
JiaYong
JinEe
JinXian
Joanna
June
Katherinne
KaYean
Kellye
KeXin
KianSeong
KitYee
Kristy
LengHue
LiLi
PeyJing
Sabrena
Shawn
SiChia
Stephanie
Stephennie
SuAnn
SuetPing
Suzanna
WanNing
XiongYan
YeeHliang
YinSuan
YoonLeen
YouXiang
Coding/Design: Yours-Tragically
Icons: Enlaced
Leave A Message
Tagboard
Saturday, September 5, 2009 1:03 PM
Things a girl wants
45 things a girl wants but will never ask for.1 . Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything – only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*
THEY MIGHT DENY IT BUT THEY ACTUALLY LIKE
AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE THEM
26-don't lie to HER.*
27-DON'T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT
31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.*
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).*
34 . While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Don't EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If
shes upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE
WITH HER NEXT
36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.*
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you .
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible*
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED
41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS*
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.*
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.*
45. sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to
her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
you'll never know when she needs just a lil more love
Labels: Meaningful stuff...
Wednesday, March 19, 2008 6:17 AM
Emo Post
Emo post rite?
Sorry, can’t do anything bout it…
Several deaths have happened around me…
My niece died…
She was only 8 months old…
She wasn’t even born…
1 more month and she would be born…
Jux dat 1 month,
But God wouldn’t let her live…
Although she was never born,
I never really got to know her,
But she had a place in my heart…
Not much,
But there still …
Hearing her death made me realize her place in my heart…
I had been waiting for this niece,
A niece I would treat as my own little sister…
Jux when we all thought she was gonna be born soon,
God took her away from us…
Everyone in my family had been waiting for this little baby to be born,
Everyone including her 2 year old brother…
Everyone is sad to know her death…
I jux can’t imagine how her parents are feeling right now?
Their pain mux be worst than mine…
Especially my cousin…
Those who had their babies for 3 months only already cried like hell when they lost their baby…
What bout her?
8 months…
She has been carrying this baby for 8 months,
8 whole months,
Everything was fine until now,
The doctor suddenly tells her that the baby’s heart has stopped beating…
She mux be suffering…
I am sure of that…
It’s impossible to lose something that close to u and not suffer…
Her husband can’t be by her side too…
However,
She has to stay cheerful…
She can’t break down…
She still has a 2 year old son to take care of…
Well…
I said several deaths happened right?
There’s another…
My tuition teacher died…
Cikgu Yushak…
He’s been teaching me Malay since form 1…
He’s one of the best teachers’ I have known…
He was a great teacher…
Had a great memory…
He was a joker…
Used to tell us jokes in class…
He even tolerated us when we were listening to mp3s…
Where can u find another teacher like that?
The week before…
He even reminded us to do our homework…
This week,
I went to tuition as usual…
We changed to another room…
I thought Cikgu Yushak was absent…
Who knows?
The person-in-charge of the tuition centre came in and told us that Cikgu Yushak had passed away…
He also told us that Cikgu Yushak had prepared work for us…
Cikgu Yushak prepared a karangan for us to write…
The title was ‘How I felt when my grandmother passed away’…
Ironical isn’t it?
It’s like he knew what would happen…
Cikgu Yushak was a great teacher…
He did his best to guide us in writing karangan…
I doubt I will ever forget this teacher…
I was gonna cry,
But I managed to hold back my tears…
Two deaths have occurred to the people around me during these holidays…
Two deaths in jux three days…
How can my post not be emo?
I’m done with being sad…
It’s useless being sad…
I still need to continue my life…
But from today onwards,
I think I will start thinking the negative way… =)
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Live life to the fullest, Meaningful stuff...
Friday, March 14, 2008 3:29 PM
Second Chances
Life is too fragile,too short for you to have second chances...
Do what you wish to do,
while you have the chance...
Cherish what you have now...
Live life to the fullest...
Life is too short for you to waste...
Don't regret only when you have lost it or you did something wrong...
Most people don't realize how important something is until they have lost it...
By that time it's already too late...
You might have lost it forever...
You might not get a second chance...
Some people are lucky enough to get a second chance...
Those who do,
won't let what they once lost slip through their fingers again...
Unless they are stupid...
Some people aren't so lucky...
They spend half their time regretting,
wishing they had a second chance...
Wishing they could start over again...
*Will I have a second chance?
Labels: Live life to the fullest, Meaningful stuff..., To you... Will u have the chance to see this?
Wednesday, February 13, 2008 2:11 PM
Valentine's Day
Tomorrow is Valentine's Day...Ya Jing says she going to buy chocolates to give to her friends...
I liked this idea...
Ya Jing buy chocolate...
I buy sweets lo...
Tomorrow i gonna be Santa Claus...
Lolx...
Oh yeah...
Elly, Jane && Pink's Valentine's present is more special...
After school...
Elly told me she saw you standing outside 3C1...
I thought it was cox of X...
But Elly repeat C1...
Then i started thinking who studies in C1...
Why the hell would you be standing outside C1?
I saw Shwu Pui...
She told me you had a fight...
That's the only thing on my mind right now...
Who did you have a fight with?
Why?
For one moment i felt like smsing u...
Wanted to ask you...
Wanted to know whether you were hurt?
But i won't...
Cox i can't let you know i still have feelins for you...
Sending such a msg would be like telling you i like you...
No wonder you looked angry when i saw you after school...
I thought I started to have feelins for YYY...
But when i heard you had a fight i started worrying bout you...
More than i worried bout YYY....
I think YYY is sick...
Cough...
I wanna quote something meaningful Elly said:
男生只会向不把他们放在眼里的女生现殷勤。。。
If that's true...
Then i think that's the case with you...
Elly tell me don't so zhu dong...
Always say hi to guys when i see them...
She says i should wait for them to say hi...
My horoscope says there are more important things for me to worry about...
So i shouldn't waste my time worrying about emotional problems...
What's the important thing?
Labels: Friends, Giving Up, Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff..., Things that happen in school, To you... Will u have the chance to see this?
Monday, January 28, 2008 3:11 PM
Sweet
A heart is strong in every aspect…
Except love…
It only takes 1 word to break a heart...
I can only give you 99 % of my heart…
I would give you 100%...
But…
I need 1% to keep on living…
Cox if got 1 then got 2 && 3…
You are my ONLY ONE…
Life isn't always beautiful. Sometimes it's just plain hard. Life can knock you down; it can break your heart
your heart and mine, but do it real slow so I don't have to lose you all at one time
I’ve never fallen so hard
Now I’m shy because I’m scared
that I’ve fallen too far
right now - at this very moment.
I realized something. I need you. I trust you, I admire you,
I want you. & you can be wrong a lot of the time, & we can fight,
& get mad at each other, but nothing, nothing in this world
can change the fact that I love you.
once you say yes there's just no saying no.
Once he walks into your life he never walks away,
once you fall into his arms you'll always want to stay.
Once you walk into his heart there's just no turning back.
Once you really love him you never have to act,
and once you fall in love there's no falling out.
when you see the world in his eyes
and his eyes everywhere in the world.
And it doesn't matter what you do or who you are or where you live.
There are no boundaries or barriers
if two people are destined to be together.
- Julia Roberts
I just can't help but love him.
not even your best friends. Because the rush
that you get around him is more than
anyone could ever explain.
All she wants is for him to go to hell.
He broke her heart, now it's in two.
And now there's nothing, she can do
There’s nothing left but memories & me by myself.
You’re the only one on my mind even though I’ve been long forgotten.
You said you'd always care,
would you say those words now after all was said & done?
You’re not here now.
that when people we love make choices,
we don’t always understand them.
But we can go on loving them, just the same.
It isn’t a matter of comprehension.
It’s forgiveness.
[Vanishing Acts]
Passionately; flawlessly; whole-heartedly
... Just never at the same time.
At the same time that I am relieved
I realize I’d do it again in a heartbeat
I love you…
I will love you forever if I could…
But…
There’s no forever in my heart…
Not anymore…
Labels: Meaningful stuff..., To you... Will u have the chance to see this?
Thursday, January 17, 2008 6:27 AM
Why We Love Who We Love
Why We Love Who We Love
Anonymous
Have you ever known a married couple that just didn't seem as though they should fit together--yet they are both happy in the marriage, and you can't figure out why?
I know of one couple: He is a burly ex-athlete who, in addition to being a successful salesman, coached Little League, was active in his Rotary Club and played golf every Saturday with friends. Meanwhile, his wife is petite, quiet and a complete homebody. She doesn't even like to go out to dinner.
What mysterious force drives us into the arms of one person, while pushing us away from another who might appear equally desirable to any unbiased observer?
Of the many factors influencing our idea of the perfect mate, one of the most telling, according to John Money, professor emeritus of medical psychology and pediatrics at Johns Hopkins University, is what he calls our 'love map'--a group of messages encoded in our brains that describes our likes and dislikes. It shows our preferences in hair and eye color, in voice, smell, and body build. It also records the kind of personality that appeals to us, whether it's the warm and friendly type or the strong, silent type.
In short, we fall for and pursue those people who most clearly fit our love map. And this love map is largely determined in childhood. By age eight, the pattern for our ideal mate has already begun to float around in our brains.
When I lecture, I often ask couples in the audience what drew them to their dates or mates. Answers range from 'She's strong and independent' and 'I go for redheads' to 'I love his sense of humor' and 'That crooked smile, that's what did it.'
I believe what they say. But I also know that if I were to ask those same men and women to describe their mothers, there would be many similarities between their ideal mates and their moms. Yes, our mothers--the first real love of our lives--write a significant portion of our love map.
When we're little, our mother is the center of our attention, and we are the center of hers. So our mother's characteristics leave an indelible impression, and we are forever after attracted to people with her facial features, body type, personality, even sense of humor. If our mother was warm and giving, as adults we tend to be attracted to people who are warm and giving. If our mother was strong and even-tempered, we are going to be attracted to a fair-minded strength in our mates.
The mother has an additional influence on her sons: she not only gives them clues to what they will find attractive in a mate, but also affects how they feel about women in general. So if she is warm and nice, her sons are going to think that's the way women are. They will likely grow up warm and responsive lovers and also be cooperative around the house.
Conversely, a mother who has a depressive personality, and is sometimes friendly but then suddenly turns cold and rejecting, may raise a man who becomes a 'dance-away lover.' Because he's been so scared about love from his mother, he is afraid of commitment and may pull away from a girlfriend for this reason.
While the mother determines in large part what qualities attract us in a mate, it's the father--the first male in our lives--who influences how we relate to the opposite sex. Fathers have an enormous effect on their children's personalities and chances of marital happiness.
Just as mothers influence their son's general feelings toward women, fathers influence their daughter's general feelings about men. If a father lavishes praise on his daughter and demonstrates that she is a worthwhile person, she'll feel very good about herself in relation to men. But if the father is cold, critical or absent, the daughter will tend to feel she's not very lovable or attractive.
What about opposites? Are they really attracted to each other? Yes and no. In many ways we want a mirror image of ourselves. Physically attractive people, for example, are usually drawn to a partner who's equally attractive.
In addition, most of us grow up with people of similar social circumstances. We hang around with people in the same town; our friends have about the same educational backgrounds and career goals. We tend to be most comfortable with these people, and therefore we tend to link up with others whose families are often much like our own.
Robert Winch, a longtime sociology professor at Northwestern University, stated in his research that our choice of a marriage partner involves a number of social similarities. But he also maintained that we look for someone with complementary needs. A talker is attracted to someone who likes to listen, or an aggressive personality may seek out a more passive partner.
It's rather like the old, but perceptive, saying on the subject of marriage that advises future partners to make sure that the holes in one's head fit the bumps in the other's. Or, as Winch observed, it's the balancing out of sociological likenesses and psychological differences that seems to point the way for the most solid lifelong romance.
However, there are instances where people of different social backgrounds end up getting married and being extremely happy. I know of one man, a factory worker from a traditional Irish family in Chicago, who fell in love with an African-American Baptist. When they got married, their friends and relatives predicted a quick failure. But 25 years later, the marriage is still strong.
It turns out that the woman was like her mother-in-law--a loving and caring person, the type who rolls up her sleeves and volunteers to work at church or help out people in need. This is the quality that her husband fell for, and it made color and religion and any other social factors irrelevant to him.
Or as George Burns, who was Jewish and married the Irish Catholic Gracie Allen, used to say: his marriage was his favorite gig, even though it was Gracie who got all the laughs. The two of them did share certain social similarities--both grew up in the city, in large but poor families. Yet what really drew them together was evident from the first time they went on stage together. They complemented each other perfectly: he was the straight man, and she delivered the punch lines.
There are certainly such 'odd couples' who could scarcely be happier. We all know some drop-dead beautiful person married to an unusually plain wallflower. This is a trade-off some call the equity theory.
When men and women possess a particular asset, such as high intelligence, unusual beauty, a personality that makes others swoon, or a hefty bankroll that has the same effect, some decide to trade their assets for someone else's strong points. The raging beauty may trade her luster for the power and security that come with big bucks. The not-so-talented fellow from a good family may swap his pedigree for a poor but brilliantly talented mate.
Indeed, almost any combination can survive and thrive. Once, some neighbors of mine stopped by for a friendly social engagement. During the evening Robert, a man in his 50s, suddenly blurted out, 'What would you say if your daughter planned to marry someone who has a ponytail and insisted on doing the cooking?'
'Unless your daughter loves cooking,' I responded, 'I'd say she was darn lucky.'
'Exactly,' his wife agreed. 'It's really your problem, Robert--that old macho thing rearing its head again. The point is, they're in love.'
I tried to reassure Robert, pointing out that the young man their daughter had picked out seemed to be a relaxed, nonjudgmental sort of person--a trait he shared with her own mother.
Is there such a thing as love at first sight? Why not? When people become love-struck, what happens in that instant is the couple probably discovers a unique something they have in common. It could be something as mundane as they both were reading the same book or were born in the same town. At the same time they recognize some trait in the other that complements their own personality.
I happen to be one of those who was struck by the magic wand. On that fateful weekend, while I was a sophomore at Cornell University, I had a terrible cold and hesitated to join my family on vacation in the Catskill Mountains. Finally I decided anything would be better than sitting alone in my dormitory room.
That night as I was preparing to go to dinner, my sister rushed up the stairs and said, 'When you walk into that dining room, you're going to meet the man you'll marry.'
I think I said something like 'Buzz off!' But my sister couldn't have been more right. I knew it from the moment I saw him, and the memory still gives me goose flesh. He was a premed student, also at Cornell, who incidentally also had a bad cold. I fell in love with Milton the instant I met him.
Milt and I were married for 39 years, until his death in 1989. And all that time we experienced a love that Erich From called a 'feeling of fusion, of oneness,' even while we both continued to change, grow and fulfill our lives.
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff...
Wednesday, January 16, 2008 6:46 AM
Romantic Love Quotes
Romantic Love QuotesWhen you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
~ By Elizabeth Bowen (1899-1973) ~
The greatest thing you'll ever learn
Is to love and be loved in return.
~ From "Unforgettable with Love" by Natalie Cole
You will never know true happiness
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand
what pain really is
until you have lost it.
~ By Anonymous ~
....A simple I love you means more than money....
~ by Frank Sinatra ~
True love cannot be found where it truly does not exist,
Nor can it be hidden where it truly does.
~ By Anonymous ~
Love is like war,
Easy to begin but hard to end.
~ by Anonymous ~
The most precious possession that ever comes
To a man in this world
Is a woman's heart.
~ by Josiah G. Holland ~
Love is a wonderful thing.
You never have to take it away
From one person to give it to another.
There's always more than enough to go around.
~ by Pamela de Roy ~
Love is like a rumor,
Everyone talks about it,
But no one truly knows.
~ by Anonymous ~
Love is like swallowing hot chocolate
Before it has cooled off.
It takes you by surprise at first,
But keeps you warm for a long time.
~ by Anonymous ~
My love for you is a journey;
Starting at forever,
And ending at never.
~ by Anonymous ~
Once in awhile,
Right in the middle of an ordinary life,
Love gives us a fairy tale.
~ by Anonymous ~
The only things in life you regret,
Are the risks that you didn't take.
~ by Anonymous ~
You love simply because you cannot help it.
~ by Kim Anderson ~
The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.
~ by Hubert Humprey ~
Hearts are not to be had as a gift
hearts are to be earned...
~ by William Butler Yeats ~
True love doesn't have a happy ending:
True love doesn't have an ending.
~ by Anonymous ~
You don't love a woman because she's beautiful,
She is beautiful because you love her.
~ by Anonymous ~
Love is not a matter of counting the years...
But making the years count.
~ by Michelle St. Amand ~
Only love let's us see normal things
In an extraordinary way.
~ by Anonymous ~
Love is that condition in which
The happiness of another person
Is essential to your own.
~ by Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land ~
If I know what love is,
It is because of you.
~ by Herman Hesse ~
You may only be one person to the world
But you may also be the world to one person.
~ by Anonymous ~
A part of you has grown in me.
And so you see, it's you and me
Together forever and never apart,
Maybe in distance, but never in heart.
~ by Anonymous ~
You can give without loving,
But you cannot love without giving.
~ by Amy Carmichael ~
There are no guarantees.
From the viewpoint of fear,
None are strong enough.
From the viewpoint of love,
None are necessary.
~ by Anonymous ~
To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.
~ by Karen Sunde ~
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself
But if your love and must needs have desires,
Let these be your desires:
· To melt and be like a running brook
· That sings its melody to the night.
· To know the pain of too much tenderness.
· To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
· And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
· To wake at dawn with a winged heart
· And give thanks for another day of loving;
· To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
· To return home at eventide with gratitude;
· And then to sleep with a prayer
· For the beloved in your heart
· And a song of praise upon your lips.
~ by Gibran Kahlil Gibran ~
Love doesn't make the world go round,
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
~ by Elizabeth Browning ~
Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free....
Will never fly away.
~ by Dick Sutphen ~
Love is a burning desire,
That makes your heart light on fire,
Love is being with you,
Someone saying I love you too,
Love is your tender kiss,
Something you don't want to miss,
Love is you and me,
And that is all I see.
~ by Anonymous ~
The best feelings are those that
Have no words to describe them....
~ by Michelle Hammersley ~
Let the world stop turning,
Let the sun stop burning,
Let them tell me love's not worth going through.
If it all falls apart,
I will know deep in my heart,
The only dream that mattered had come true
...In this life I was loved by you.
~ by Bette Midler ~
We can only learn to love by loving.
~ by Iris Murdoch ~
May no gift be too small to give,
nor too simple to receive,
which is wrapped in thoughtfulness
and tied with love.
~ by L.O. Baird ~
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
~ by Oliver Wendell Holmes ~
The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along.
~ by Maulana Jalalu'ddin Rumi ~
What the heart gives away is never gone ...
It is kept in the hearts of others.
~ by Robin St. John ~
Love, you know, seeks to make happy rather than to be happy.
~ by Ralph Connor ~
Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.
~ by Thomas Fuller ~
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
While loving someone deeply gives you courage.
~ by Lao Tzu ~
Even though there may be times
It seems I'm far away
Never wonder where I am
'Cause I am always by your side.
~ by Celine Dion (The Power of Love) ~
All love that has not friendship for its base,
is like a mansion built upon the sand.
~ by Ella Wheeler Wilcox ~
For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.
~ by Ivan Panin ~
Love puts the fun in together,
The sad in apart,
The hope in tomorrow,
The joy in the heart.
~ by Anonymous ~
True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.
~ by Antoine De Saint-Exupery ~
In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.
~ by Janos Arany ~
Just because someone doesn't love you
in the way you want them to,
doesn't mean that they don't love you
with all they've got.
~ by Author unknown ~
Love withers with predictability; its very essence is surprise and amazement. To make love a prisoner of the mundane is to take its passion and lose it forever.
~ by Leo Buscaglia ~
Love knows no reasons,
love knows no lies.
Love defies all reasons,
love has no eyes.
But love is not blind,
love sees but doesn't mind.
~ by Author unknown ~
Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost,
sometimes unrecognized, but in the end,
always found with no regrets, forever valued
and kept treasured.
~ by Unknown ~
Sometimes we let affection,
go unspoken,
Sometimes we let our love
go unexpressed,
Sometimes we can't find words to tell
our feelings,
Especially towards those
we love the best.
~ by Author unknown ~
Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
~ by Erich Fromm ~
Think about it, there must be higher love
Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above
Without it, life is a wasted time
Look inside your heart, I'll look inside mine.
~ by Steve Winwood ~
Love does not consist in gazing at each other
but in looking together in the same direction.
~ by Antoine de Saint-Exupery ~
You come to love not by finding the perfect person,
but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
~ by Sam Keen ~
Love is always bestowed as a gift --
freely, willingly, and without expectation....
We don't love to be loved; we love to love.
~ by Leo Buscaglia ~
Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
~ by Elbert Hubbard ~
The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable.
~ by Victor Hugo ~
Inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world.
~ by Rev Ed Hird ~
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff...
6:43 AM
Flirting Tips
Flirting Tips Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile. he’s checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff...
Tuesday, January 15, 2008 6:27 AM
Live Life . Love Life
Found this in my cousin sis's profile...
Think it's quite meaningful so I wanna upload it...
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff...
6:23 AM
Broken bottle, broken heart…
Well…
It’s jux something small in other people’s eyes…
But…
For me…
It’s the worst thing that could ever happen to me today…
Maybe as worst as what happened on
Erm…
Elly gave me a keychain of a bottle of stars last year…
During duty…
Now should have been almost 1 year after she gave me…
At first I loved it…
I used it…
Then I kept it inside my drawer…
Until recently…
Not really recently…
A few months ago actually…
I was clearing my drawer…
I found the keychain…
That keychain has 2 meanings to me…
1) A present Elly gave me…
2) It has a connection with him…Few people know this reason… Only people close to me knows it…
I don’t know why I am talking bout how I got this keychain…
But…
I feel like telling it…
So…
Sorry if I am making you feel bored…
Now for the main point…
Jux now…
A few minutes before 8…
The keychain broke…
All the stars in the bottle fell…
I couldn’t pick it up as there was glass…
To me…
These stars resemble my heart…
My heart is broken…
Into little pieces…
It can’t be fixed…
That’s the state of my heart now…
A mess of little pieces…
Maybe a few people will say…
It’s just a bottle of stars…
Nothing important…
That’s what Wei Ling said…
But…
This bottle of stars is VERY important to me…
I really wish I can buy back that bottle of star…
But…
Even if I do find the shop…
I buy another bottle of star…
The meaning is not there anymore…
It’s not the same…
What’s lost is lost…
My bro helped me pick up 1 star…
1 star = only love…
But…
That star dropped before I had a chance to keep it…
Is this fate?
No matter what…
I still feel like buying another bottle of these stars…
Even though it will never be the same…
Same with a heart…
After a heart is broken…
No matter how you fix it…
It will NEVER be the same anymore…
I think I’m being redundant…
But…
I can’t do anything bout it…
That’s how I’m feeling…
My mind is repeating itself…
I have a bad premonition…
Does this mean ‘another’ bottle of stars jux broke?
I hope not…
Aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now damn sad ah!!!!!!
I almost cried over that bottle of stars…
Emo dao bao ah!!!!!!
What’s broken can’t be mended…
Especially a broken heart…
Nothing can last forever…
Except a broken heart…
&& probably…
Friendship…
No matter how you mend…
It won’t be perfect anymore…
*Sorry Elly…
I now damn emo…
Can’t stop my post from being emo*
Labels: Jux a bunch of crap, Meaningful stuff..., To you... Will u have the chance to see this?
Monday, January 7, 2008 3:13 PM
Relationship
One of my friend(I can't say her name... They wanna keep secret) and my other friend(again can't say name... Lolx) they couple...But hor...
They two hor...
Very secretive de...
They couple d hor...
But...
In school they are like complete strangers...
If other people ask them got bf or gf or not?
I think they will say no...
According to what i know...
Is the guy wanna keep secret de wor...
They break before de...
But together again...
I don't understand why they must be complete strangers?
They can jux say they are friends right?
Well...
The worst part(I think the worst la) is...
Even if one of them chat with friends of the opposite sex...
Even if they are angry or jealous they can't express it in front of their friend...
But...
Maybe they don't mind lo...
For example...
She chat with his friend in front of him...
Even if he's jealous or he minds...
He can't say it out right?
Or emo and don't talk to his friend?
Cox if he does...
His friend sure will ask why he so emo de right?
What's he supposed to say?
I don't like to see u chatting with her?
Haiz...
But...
No matter what...
This is their relationship...
I can't do or say anything...
I only can blog bout it...
Labels: Friends, Meaningful stuff...
Sunday, January 6, 2008 4:14 PM
L-O-V-E
If you love someone, put their names in a circle not a heart. A heart breaks but a circle goes on forever
Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened
Never start frowning because you never know who's falling in love with your smile... =)
If you really love something set it free, if it comes back its yours, if it doesn't it was never meant to be
You can’t prove love…
U only can prove yourself… =)
Labels: Meaningful stuff...
4:03 PM
Girls
Girls
are like
apples on trees.
The best ones are
at the top of the tree.The
boys don’t want to reach
for the good ones because they
are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they just get the rotten apples
from the ground that aren't as good,
but easy. So the apples at the top think
something is wrong with them, when in
reality, they're amazing. They just
have to wait for the right boy to
come along, the one who's
brave enough to
climb all
the way
to the top
of the tree.
Labels: Meaningful stuff...